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Healing from toxic church – seeking what is precious, and truly God

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Sabotage, coerce, shame: Bullying in the church

  • Post published:June 4, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 7, 2025

It’s agonizing to be bullied – and it can happen to an adult, in the church. Supposedly godly people, seeking to control, plot to sabotage, coerce, shame.

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Resentment and its victims: Hate without cause

  • Post published:May 28, 2025
  • Post category:Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:May 28, 2025

Resentment may seem harmless. It may seem justified. Yet it is toxic and often misdirected. Whether it’s simmering within you or aimed at you, it’s hurting you.

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Our Passover: Knowing and going with Christ

  • Post published:May 11, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

From its start, Passover has met God’s people at the intersection of pain and gain, and urged, “Go with God. He is so worth it.” A story of Christ our Passover.

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Love story, fairy-tale life? Caged bird singing? Esther

  • Post published:April 11, 2025
  • Post category:From: The Esther Blessing/Living Life
  • Post last modified:April 23, 2025

Have we seen Queen Esther as a beloved wife, living a fairy-tale life? If so, we’ve missed the abuse in her story and a surprising key to reigning in life.

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Bucking the system: Shunning, submission, Jesus

  • Post published:April 2, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church
  • Post last modified:June 7, 2025

Jesus grew up in a religious system God had instigated, and people had hijacked to use for their own ends. Jesus’ life shows us when and how to buck the system.

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Sisters uncover cruelty hidden in plain sight

  • Post published:March 23, 2025
  • Post category:From: We Confess!
  • Post last modified:May 28, 2025

Decades ago, Sarah and Angelina Grimké told the truth with compassion and courage. Still today, the sisters can help us uncover cruelty hidden in plain sight.

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Woman walking on the water, you are ordained

  • Post published:March 12, 2025
  • Post category:Healing from Toxic Church/My Story
  • Post last modified:May 19, 2025

When asked if I wanted to be ordained, I waited on the Lord. I’m still in awe! And I can encourage you: When he calls you to walk on the water to meet him – GO!

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People of God, befriend the forsaken

  • Post published:March 8, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:May 21, 2025

I’d seen it in Scripture, yet had not seen: How strongly God commits himself to defend the forsaken. How strongly he urges his people to befriend the forsaken.

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Sometimes, intimate conversation with God is passionate and fierce.

It is God who has wronged me

  • Post published:March 2, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God
  • Post last modified:March 8, 2025

Deeply grieving, falsely accused, Job cried in anger. “It is God who has wronged me!” Sometimes, intimate conversations with God are passionate and fierce.

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Defender of the forsaken – this is God

  • Post published:February 20, 2025
  • Post category:Knowing and Going with God/Trauma and Grief
  • Post last modified:March 8, 2025

The Lord sees when the vulnerable are wrongly rejected. He hears when the helpless cry to him, and he champions them. Defender of the forsaken – this is God.

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